I've never had any luck with the clouting method (although I've seen other people do it - and no a nylon-headed hammer won't do it!), and it's difficult to see how you'd get a splitter in there without wrecking the rubber boot on the balljoint.
I use a suitable sized socket and a suitable lump of metal (if you built the car then the lug you hacksawed off the back of the diff is perfect). The lump of metal sits on the upright directly below the nut/stud of the balljoint. A suitably sized socket sits on top of the lump of metal, possibly packed up with a larger washer or two, such that as you undo the nut (with an open-ended spanner) the nut starts to bear on the socket just after the nyloc has cleared the end of the stud. As you continue to undo the nut it can't travel down because it is hard up against the socket, and the socket is hard up against the lump of metal, and the lump of metal is sitting on the upright. Eventually there's a big bang and the balljoint pops.
Mike