Hmmm, your story Richard is strangely reminiscent of my rather more expensive R500 engine failure. In mine the crank pulley did actually come off on track which simply toasted the engine. The interesting part is that we think we traced the root cause to when it had starter probs! The car had several starter motors replaced and eventually a new flywheel (no idea why). When the engine was taken out and split from the gbox after the failure, the flywheel fell off and the bolts holding it on had disintegrated. The trail (as they say) went cold at this point, but it is perfectly possible that a 'loose' flywheel vibrated the crank pulley bolt out. This may all be coincidental, but you may well want to look at the other end of your engine before deciding all's well.
I did have a few other symptoms before the failure that in retrospect definitely appeared as the engine was falling apart. I had a nasty missing at about 5k rpm as I assume a resonance was set up with the loose flywheel. I also had troubles with smooth low speed driving. The engine was all over the place in second gear pootling along. I either had to accelerate or take my foot off the gas, part throttle was orrible.
A lot of conjecture here and rather way off the 'PC' standard of analytical diagnosis, but we can't all be geniuses(!).
Graham